Michael Lawrience

How Do You Use Your Power of Choice Part 1?

We all face the power of choice each day in our lives. Both small choices and on occasions life changing ones. With each choice we encounter a major cross road.
How will we make the best choice? Will we choose the high road or the low road? Will we take the high road less traveled or the low road trodden by most people? Each choice adds up, determining the quality of our lives. At the end of our days, will we have experienced a life well lived or one filled with regrets?
How Do You Use Your Power of Choice? Let’s examine 4 areas affected by your choices.

PhysicPower of Choiceal: Do you choose Death or Life?

Choice for Death Contacts; Squeezes the Joy, Life, and Love out of us.

You May Experience:

  • Physical pain or major illnesses
  • Depression, Misery, Unhappiness
  • Work as boring
  • Unsatisfying relationships
  • Hating life, look for ways (alcohol, drugs, overeating etc.) to escape our suffering
  • No longer want to go on living

Choice for Life Expands our Joy, capacity for Love and Vitality

You May Experience:

  • Loving your career or life purpose/vocation
  • Being healthy
  • Feeling alive and full of vitality
  • Enjoying Creating projects with your special talents
  • Manifesting success
  • Intimacy and loving relationships

Emotional: Do you React and Blame or Accept Self-Responsibility

Choice of Reaction and Blame

You May Experience:

  • In relationships, personal or work, a tendency to often get emotional triggered. Emotions arise by what others say or do.
  • Reacting quickly with anger, frustration or upset
  • Blaming others for the way you feel
  • Misery and hating your life
Note: When you often get emotionally upset and blame others, you’re no longer control your choices. Your unconscious self, like a child, sits in the driver’s seat. This part of your psyche controls your vehicle of life. You careen out of control. You bounce back and forth from one emotional situation to another.

Choice of Accepting Self-Responsibility

You May Experience:

  • Being in touch with your physical body
  • Awareness of how you feel inside
  • Mindfulness of your patterns of unresolved emotional pain
  • When emotionally triggered to pause and sit with the feelings
  • Using tools to connect and support your inner child with love

See Part 2 Mental and Spiritual Power of Choice

https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/power-of-choice2/

https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/impose-their-emotions/

https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/feel-better/

BOOKS

Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170

Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO. 

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A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness

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I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness.

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