Michael Lawrience

Emotional Health

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How to Best Let Go of Resistance Now 

How to Best Let Go of Resistance Now Introduction: Life is a beautiful adventure. Resistance creates tension and anxiety. Our life of the outer world, our thoughts and our emotions. These change constantly. Michael Singer’s Living Untethered, describes your journey of acceptance of reality. It helps you. achieve freedom, peace, and inner enlightenment. You will find out who you are, what the outside world is, and why and how your thoughts and emotions change. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to accept reality and surrender to the flow. In other words, how to let go and live your life “untethered.” You discover your real self and the difference between willful and automatic thought. Three powerful techniques help you let go. Chapter 1. What’s in it for Me? What is our inner monologue or stream of consciousness? But what is it exactly, and why does it never stop talking? If you pause for a minute, you will hear it. Your inner train of thought hardly ever stops to take a break! Your first step toward enlightenment: Start paying attention to your inner voice. You also need to understand that your thoughts never define you. They’re only outputs of your consciousness. Your consciousness is the part of your brain. It spends all day processing your thoughts and feelings. This is the information your senses pick up. Start paying attention to your inner voice, notice that it follows certain patterns. Sometimes it makes you worried, upset or surprised. It also influences your emotions. Sometimes we get caught up in our thoughts. We forget they’re actually objects of our consciousness. This is the difference between our self and personal self. Your self is your pure consciousness, which flows as it likes. Your personal self is the way you perceive yourself. This is the patterns of your thoughts. If you often feel sad, for example, you may start to think of yourself as a sad person. If you’re always envious of others, you might see yourself as a jealous person. To become enlightened, accept that these thoughts and feelings never define you. The real you is aware of the role these thoughts and feelings play. Chapter 2. Well of Energy. Consciousness is a wonderful, mysterious thing. It’s like the energy we all have inside ourselves. If you can learn to flow with this energy, you can do about anything. Like the energy of the physical world, there’s an internal energy inside you. Imagine that your partner broke up with you. Since then, you’ve been lying in bed, feeling depressed and lethargic. Then one day your ex calls you up, saying they never should’ve left you. They want to come over. You may feel a sudden burst of energy. This energy is chi in Chinese medicine, and shakti in the yoga tradition. If you want to feel it, you need to open your mind and let it flow. Inner energy may seem intangible. It’s actually very real. It’s a resource that’s waiting for you to tap into. We don’t feel it constantly because we tend to subconsciously block it. We break its natural flow. Picture yourself driving down the road. As you move along, you’ll notice buildings, traffic lights, people and trees. Then suddenly you think you see your “ex” walking down the street, holding hands with someone else. You keep driving, but your consciousness becomes consumed by this image. You return to this over and over again in your mind. It’ll make you anxious and jealous, Unable to relax. In situations like this, let negative thoughts pass through you. Otherwise, your inner energy will build, but become blocked.Unreleased energy can lead to negative emotions, like depression.Your consciousness has a bad habit of focusing on negative things. There’s a reason we evolved this way. Focusing on our predators made us more likely to survive! Chapter 3. A Fear Free Life. How can you put your fear and anxiety aside to live a more enjoyable life? Fear is also an object of your consciousness. You can deal with it in two ways: recognize its presence and let it go, or run away from it. We often bottle it up. We even structure our lives so nothing ever triggers fear, to protect ourselves. Think about any time you’ve had a splinter in your finger. If you touch it, it hurts. You may find it difficult to sleep because you’re bumping it. In this situation, you have two choices. Change your movements so nothing ever touches the splinter, pull it out.Letting go of your fear is like removing a splinter. Accept that your fear is a separate thing you need to remove. Fear is the result of blocked inner energy. When your natural flow energy gets blocked, it is unable to reach your heart.Your heart will become weaker, and more susceptible to fear. Enlightenment is reaching awareness of fear. Never let it take over your life. Chapter 4. Widen Consciousness. Letting go of your thoughts and feelings is the key to spiritual growth. But what if you train your consciousness to turn away from your thoughts and emotions? What if your consciousness transcends all that? Your consciousness is tightly bound up in a mental construct shaped over the years. This functions like a cage that you are unable to escape. We impose mental boundaries on our own minds. This protects us from anything we feel threatens our idea of who we are. Letting go, your consciousness expands. Your consciousness is so focused on your thoughts that it tunes everything else out. Buddhists call this clinging. Clinging builds a cage. When you let go, you realize freedom. When you let these thoughts flow, your consciousness expands. This is how you transcend your personal self. Death is frightening. It also gives life meaning. What would you do today if you knew it was your last day? Chapter 5. Idea of Death. Yogis and saints have always embraced death. In the words of St. Paul, “Oh death, where is thy sting? Oh

Power of Now
Emotional Health, Newsletter Updates

Eckhart Tolle The Power of Now Spiritual Guide

September 2025 Newsletter Update   Introduction Many of us spend our time either trapped in a regret-filled past or anxious about a future we want to control. The Power of Now spiritual guide Eckhart Tolle provides you with several methods for directing the relationships of your past, present, and future. At the heart of Tolle’s practice is living in the present moment as a way to avoid most of the pain. His book focuses on the connection between the mind and suffering. He shows the self-destructive ways in which we use our minds. The Power of Now has helped millions of people to improve their lives. Chapter 1: Improve Your Life Do you know the steps to improve your life? Well, the first step may be easier than you imagine. Do you tend to live in the past or in the future? Are you living with regret or worry? Do you neglect the present moment? Only the present. Nothing ever occurs in the past or future. Things happen only in a continuous stream of present moments. Whenever you feel something, experience it in the present. There are no advantages to worrying about the future or dwelling in the past. Thus, you’ll experience no major problems, only small ones to deal with as they arise. Live in the present! Stop fearing the future. Chapter 2: Part of You Needs Pain to Survive What if you manage to live in the present? You have no worry about the past or future. What happens when you then experience pain? If pain is felt in the present moment, how can you deal with both physical and emotional suffering? Pain is self-created inner resistance to external things. You have no control over them. Your pain manifests itself on an emotional level as a negative feeling. Another aspect of self-created pain is the “pain-body,” a part of the self that needs you to feel pain so it can survive. Since the pain-body is composed of your painful experiences. It grows and strengthens whenever you experience pain. This cycle can continue until the pain becomes an essential part of you. You have fully identified with your pain-body. For example, when something annoys you, you feel yourself getting angry. Your pain-body has taken control. The good news is that because it’s self-created, you can do something about it. Find out how in the next chapter.   Chapter 3: Ego Have you ever wondered why some people seem to sabotage themselves? Why are so many people unhappy? Your ego mind controls your thoughts and behavior without you noticing. Do you know the extent to which your ego controls your life? Your ego depends on your misery for its continued existence. It obstructs happiness at every turn. Some people sabotage their own happiness. They decide to stay in destructive and painful relationships. The ego leads you into conflict with others. It makes you unhappy with your current situation. It can then gain control over your behavior and thinking. For example, whenever two or more egos come together, drama ensues. This is seen in offices and households. You may find yourself suddenly in a fiery debate over a minor issue. For instance, whose turn is it to clean the kitchen? If you allow your ego to control, it will bring you much suffering.   Chapter 4: Focus on the Body Separate yourself from your mind and pay attention to your body. The mind handles pain. It produces pain by continually bringing up memories of the past or by planning for the future. Thus, it prevents you from living in the present. You constantly worry about things you’re unable to change. That leads to pain. Start shifting your focus from the mind to the body. Your body knows what’s best for you. Listen to your body. You will get what is important in your life. Nobody has ever found insight while concentrating on the mind and ignoring the body. A vivid illustration is seen in the Buddha’s six-year abstinence. He did this to separate himself from his body. Did he feel more peace? No! He gave up these practices. Then he felt at one with his body once more.   Chapter 5: Free Yourself from Pain Before you realized your mind creates pain. It interferes with living in the present. How do you detach from your mind? Become fully conscious of it. One way is observing the mind. This creates a gap in the flow of thinking. Notice how much the continuous flow of your mind occupies you. This is a primary tool for interrupting your mind and thus separating from it. A second method is to observe your mind without judging. Judging is an act of the mind. Thus, you are back to using your mind again. If in the middle of your work you feel like running, follow that impulse. Go outside and run. You may hear an inner nagging voice. “Right now, you should be working rather than wasting time!” Rather than judging that voice, smile, and accept it. You’re learning to notice your mind without following it.   Chapter 6: State of Permanent Alertness Another mind technique is active waiting. All your attention is focused on the now moment. With active waiting, there’s no time for daydreaming, planning, or remembering. These distract you from the present. For example, while taking an exam, you waste no time worrying about the results. You remain fully present and pay close attention to the exam. Entering a state of active waiting shortly before and during the exam can help you. You also pay attention to your body. It has to be ready for anything to occur. This focus on the body is crucial to living in the present. Many spiritual teachers recommend this state of waiting to their pupils. They believed it led to a good life.   Chapter 7: Improve Relationships After following the steps previous chapters, you’re now able to live in the present. You are no longer completely

life problems
Emotional Health

A Better Way Succeeding Solving Life’s Problems?

How do we best solve life’s problems? What percentage of time do you spend in left brain thinking? Perhaps most of your time? What percentage do you feel overwhelmed; stressed out? “The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.” William James; Do you believe you’re unable to stop your constant mind chatter? You can with practice and the right tools.   Non-cognitive Solving Problems “Nine-tenths of the information we’re exposed to each day is non-cognitive.” The Seer Almine Non-cognitive relates to our right brain. This involves other states of knowing. Both subconscious and higher consciousness communication. Information reveals through feelings and meditation practice. Revelation also occurs through symbols in nature. These symbols involve totem animals, birds, insects, clouds etc. Symbols in our subconscious show up in dreams.   Average Person Approach     1. Ignore problems: Sweep them under the rug. This creates dysfunctional homes and relationships. 70%-80% of Americans consider their families dysfunctional Gourani, 2019. Dysfunction may also produce physical illness. “Trauma is often at the heart of our emotional distress. The tender emotional wounds from childhood or acute adult stress are major factors in anxiety, stress, depression, addiction, and anger suppression. Soldering on with these conditions has a harmful impact on our bodies.” “Nearly 70 percent of Americans are on at least one prescription drug; more than half take two.” MYTH of NORMAL by GABOR MATÉ M.D. 55% of Americans are stressed during the day. THE AMERICAN INSTITUTE OF STRESS 2022      2. Average person tackles the problem head-on. They attempt to think it through. The problem is seen through their limited world perception. My experience shows learning hides within a problem. I experience evolving through challenges. A More Consciousness Way to Solve Problems We can connect to the power around us in our environment, nature and the Divine.     Acknowledge the problem exists. Then surrender it to the Divine. When we completely surrender answers arise, in their own timing. Stay aware of the symbols/signs of nature around. Be aware of your feelings. In the silence of your mind/meditation answers arise. No effort required. What is Best Way Solving Problems With Dream Symbols? Our subconscious presents the language of dream symbols. E.g. Owl may represent seeing through the dark. Look at also what feelings or thoughts does the owl stir up. A medicine animals appear when you’re ready to integrate their medicine/qualities. A free Toltec dream symbol handbook https://originalones.org – create an account – login – https://almine.store/product/dream-dictionary/ How to Heal Childhood Traumas   https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/positive-mind/ https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/traumas/ https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/relationships/ BOOKS Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170 Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO.  NEW BOOK  “A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness.” A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness Softcover book https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness/dp/B0DNSF9DFB EBOOK https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B0DNQ9VBB8 I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness. FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift I would appreciate a review. What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? I will do a monthly at the beginning of each month COMMENTS: What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? Do you have suggestions to improve the articles? FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift. [subscribe2]      

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Emotional Health

How to Accept and Overcome Life’s Challenges

Do you resist looking at the challenges in your life? Life challenges reflect issues interfering with your quality of life. They also affect your ability achieving life goals. FACING LIFE CHALLENGES Challenges have a habit of reappearing in different ways. They do this to get our attention. The longer we ignore them the more difficult they can become. First you may trip. Next you may stumble and fall. Later you may get knocked down. Then you may have an accident. This occurs over a period of time, even years. Gain insights by facing difficulties. Continue moving forward each time the same challenge arises. Learn to go inside your body. Feel the pain or tension. Notice where it is. Breath into it. With intent breathe the Divine into the place of body tension. Overtime the tension will lessen. Hidden with each test lies a gem. For example, within the compacted coal lurks a diamond. Our shadow/trauma, once recognized, opens to Divine Grace.  The high end contains a spiritual gift. Our gifts assist us in manifesting our life goals. CREATING CHALLENGES We attract that which we fear or fight. We strengthen that which we oppose/fight/resist. Do you want to create with fear or positive intent? Do you know you have choice? Also take time to look at other challenges. Challenge of Self-Doubt, Procrastination, Rejection and staying True to your Higher Self. DEALING WITH CHALLENGES What trauma hides behind the challenges? How do you view the trauma? Do you see it as negative? Or do you perceive it as a positive? Life isn’t limited by what happens to you. It is how you react to what happens. “Trauma is not what happens to you, it’s what happens inside you as a result of what happened to you. Trauma is that scarring that makes you less flexible, more rigid, less feeling and more defended.” Gabor Mate M.D. Conclusion: Life Challenges Do you accept your life challenges? Do you choose to keep moving forward? Do you savor/enjoy your life journey? https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/angel-healing-your-inner-child/ How to Deal with Life’s Challenges | Eckhart Tolle https://youtu.be/PK_sWWUvMjU Most people live in constant dissatisfaction. They’re always wanting. These people want to be somewhere else. They want to be doing something different. On a higher level, we live in expanded consciousness. This is a dormant seed in some. In others the seed has began sprouting. See The Overself Awakening J.J. Hurtak. 72 stages of Conscious Awakening https://keysofenoch.org/shop/product/the-overself-awakening/ BOOKS Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170 Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO.  NEW BOOK  “A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness.” A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness Softcover book https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness/dp/B0DNSF9DFB EBOOK https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B0DNQ9VBB8 I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness. FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift I would appreciate a review. What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? I will do a monthly at the beginning of each month COMMENTS: What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? Do you have suggestions to improve the articles? FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift. [subscribe2]

Positive Mind
Emotional Health

Compassion, Peace and Service to Others: Gift of Neutral Mind

Neutral Mind includes a balance between negative and positive mind. Three Minds Working Together Negative Mind (Left Brain) you stop, look, and listen. Then you consider the danger.  Positive Mind (Right Brain) you see yourself crossing a street safely.  Neutral Mind (Meditative Mind) you cross the street safely. Key Question: “Will I allow myself meditative and intuitive balance in my thinking?” Neutral Mind “The beginning of freedom is the realization that you are not “the thinker.” The moment you start watching the thinker, a higher level of consciousness becomes activated.” Eckhart Tolle Meditative mind compares a neutral thought against a recurring subconscious pattern. The pattern comes from your inner child’s trauma. Even when we suppress our patterns they emerge. They surface in negative emotions or critical thoughts. Sometimes we push them down deep into unconscious. Then they arise as body aches and pains. Neutral Mind retrains you. You become conscious of the core trauma beneath your pain. Our left brain can weigh and balance positive and negative. A strong meditative mind balances automatically. This takes practice. Positive or negative mind may see ½ half full cup. Meditative mind sees a full cup. Neutral Mind Meditative Mind Meditative Mind retrains your positive and negative minds. It makes you a good listener. If you get around somebody with meditative mind, they’ll pull you into their state right away. Their mental/emotional condition spreads out. That’s the idea of cup of prayer. Share this cup, have a drink out of this cup and you’ll be fine. Neutral Mind Balances those around you – good Listener – Intuitive.  You take and receive criticism calmly Heal traumas with more ease with Meditation Retrains your Mind 2 Keys for Meditation Key 1 Body relaxed – no discomfort Do stretches, body tapping or some yoga Key 2 A breathing exercise – alternate nostril Breath and Mantra chanting Relationship: Positive Negative and Neutral Minds Together One best ways learn about positive, negative and neutral minds is through relationship. One person represents positive mind. Another person represents negative mind. Conflict emerges when you identify with your thoughts. Then you may defend or argue.  Trouble comes when you identify with the thoughts of the mind. We feel compelled to defend your point of view. You may want to convince the other person that you are right. For example, negative mind person wants to save money. The positive mind person enjoys spending. Arguments result. Move past conflict with neutral mind. Listen without attachment to outcome. Both sides need full expression. Creative Neutral Mind may introduce a 3rd option. Negative Mind. Trauma from early childhood creates many negative thoughts https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/negative-mind/ How to Heal Childhood Trauma’s. As an adult we experience ongoing trauma’s. Do you take on others energies and emotions? https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/traumas  How to Train Your Positive Mind https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/positive-mind Do You Abuse Yourself With Negative Self-Talk https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/critical-self-talk BOOKS Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170 Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO.  NEW BOOK  “A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness.” A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness Softcover book https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness/dp/B0DNSF9DFB EBOOK https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B0DNQ9VBB8 I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness. FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift I would appreciate a review. What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? I will do a monthly at the beginning of each month COMMENTS: What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? Do you have suggestions to improve the articles? FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift. [subscribe2]

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Emotional Health

8 Tips: Training Your Mind Becoming More Optimistic and Positive

Positive mind stands strong. Positive Mind  (Right Brain) Looks at life’s positive side. You radiate light in the darkness of the world. We allow ourselves to experience the “good things” in life. This leads to a balanced life. With positive mind you may approach life another way. You have a tendency to rush into situations. Risks remain unconsidered. Also, over-positivity can create loss. We live a life of imbalance.   Here is an example of over-positivity. Society conditions us to buy and buy more. Then we will be happy. We keep buying and still feel unfulfilled. Positive Mind As we develop our right brain, higher intuition grows We gain the ability to connect our ego to the Divine/Higher Self. “Divine Will” runs our life Daily practice with intent, brings the Divine into our body. Then we flow with the river of life. We surrender our resistance We begin sensing the wisdom of the Divine. Then we find ourselves at the right place at the right time. We become the Divine Will. We remove negative thoughts through meditating. Also, certain positive mind exercises help. Positive Mind Resistance It is our inner child who resists/fights. Our inner child wants to control. As the adult, we ask our child to connect with the Divine. We encourage the child to climb up to the tree-house. They perch at the 8th chakra. 8th chakra is about 1 foot above crown of the head. “If our environment cannot support our gut feelings and our emotions, then the child, in order to ‘belong’ and ‘fit in’ will automatically, unwittingly and unconsciously, suppress their emotions and their connections to themselves, for the sake of staying connected to the nurturing environment …”  Gabor Mate Note: Most people use their mind as a misery making machine. Use the simple process below. Begin the process of feeling the magic of the mind. More Remedies Healing Mind/Body Baths with bath salts and essential oils. Salts such as Epsom, magnesium or dead sea etc. Add Essential Oils to Bath: Use 5 to 10 drops. Lavender calms nervous system Lemon and Orange uplift mind Clove releases tension Peppermint releases fear and calms mind Tough Day at Work Head to the bathroom as soon as you get home. Turn on the cold water in the bathtub. Take your shoes and socks off. Sit on the edge of the bathtub Place your feet under the cold running water at least 3 minutes. Nervous system readjusts – Revives your brain How to Remove Negative Thoughts? Sadhguru https://youtu.be/lJCUC0mRkPo https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/positive-self-talk/ https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/find-your-life-purpose/  Negative Mind. Trauma from early childhood creates many negative thoughts https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/negative-mind Neutral Mind includes a balance between negative and positive mind  https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/neutral-mind How to Heal Childhood Trauma’s. As an adult we experience ongoing trauma’s. Do you take on others energies and emotions? https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/traumas  BOOKS Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170 Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO.  NEW BOOK  “A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness.” A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness Softcover book https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness/dp/B0DNSF9DFB EBOOK https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B0DNQ9VBB8 I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness. FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift I would appreciate a review. What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? I will do a monthly at the beginning of each month COMMENTS: What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? Do you have suggestions to improve the articles? FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift. [subscribe2]

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Emotional Health

7 Tips: How to Achieve the Gift Of Emotional Freedom From Personal Will

Personal Will or ego represents our left brain nonstop critical chatter. It is our body and subconscious. It is our emotional reactions to others. Also, it reveals judgments of self and others. We feel: less than; never good enough; unloved. Our will/ego looks for only outer pleasures. Yet, more money and possessions never please. Example of Personal Will We may know a child who always hungers. This child always clamors for more. The child’s empty pit of a stomach never ever receives enough. They lash out in anger, temper tantrums or incessant crying. The child runs the parents’ lives. In childhood we experience conditioning by our parents, school and society. Our parents’ approval often becomes based on what we do rather than our unique inner gifts. We also carry the traumas of our parents. As adults this lives in our psyches. It is our inner child. This child may run our adult lives. It may show up as codependency, wanting to control, and patterns of anger and victim etc. As adults, we drag out traumas along behind us. Sometimes we act as adults. Other times, we act from the programming of our inner child. As adults, we have the responsibility to heal our own inner child. We choose to parent that child. Or we can continue blaming our parents. As adults, personal will always strives having more. More is never enough. Do you want to break free of the tyranny of personal will(pain)? Which do you want: Peace or Control? Where is Inner Peace? Peace requires finding the power and balance in our second chakra. Our second chakra lies about 2 inches below our navel. Peace requires balance of second chakra. Balancing peace involves both our minds and heart. Achieving Freedom from Personal Will 1. Be the adult to your inner child. 2. Become aware of childhood repeating patterns 3. Use patterns to see life lessons to learn 4. Heal and nurture the child 5. Notice misery and “Doing” rather than “Being” and enjoying life 6. Listen to child and let child express 7. Encourage the child to connect to Divine Grace/Love at 8th chakra Emotional Pain: Steps to Spiritual Healing  https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/emotional-pain-2/ How Do We Heal Trauma? Heal Inner Child Meditation 8th chakra https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/heal-trauma/ Inner Victim Child: How to Heal. How to Dissolve Our DNA Victim Patterns. https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/inner-victim-child Personal Will (Mind Chatter) How Do I Quiet My Mind? https://youtu.be/71yjXgUpLWw Emotional Pain and Suffering: What is the Difference  https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/overcome-pain-and-suffering BOOKS Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170 Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO.  NEW BOOK  “A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness.” A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness Softcover book https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness/dp/B0DNSF9DFB EBOOK https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B0DNQ9VBB8 I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness. FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift I would appreciate a review. What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? I will do a monthly at the beginning of each month COMMENTS: What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? Do you have suggestions to improve the articles? FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift. [subscribe2]

Emotional Health

10 Steps for Thriving and Building a Better Future

What does thriving mean? Chaos runs awry in our planet today. Do you feel shaken to the roots of your being? How can one thrive in such a turbulent climate? Thriving involves prospering and inner growth. Note: Inspired by Richard Rudd “Practical Guidance for Thriving” Do you, yet, experience fear and or anger? When we get stuck in fear, what occurs? Fear like a magnet draws more fear. We then keep recycling the fear. Like a hamster in a rotary cage, we keep spinning nonstop. Aside from fear we may fall into feeling victimized. As a victim we sink into a swamp of “poor me.” Unless through an act of will, we remain stuck. So, anger may rule our lives. We curse at rising food and gas prices. In our thoughts we fight against the conflicts in the world. How will we ever flourish and prosper? We can stay in blame, shame and reaction to our partners. It takes effort to shift from focusing on chaos in our outer world. Thriving: Shift Outer Attention It requires shifting our attention from the outer. Thriving involves becoming aware of our inner world. We always have a choice. You may decide to pay attention to inner body feelings. We can also pay attention to our critical fearful mind chatter. Awareness as a first step.  Stillness Meditation Meditation to deal the left brain mind, critical voices/self-judgement In essence, we sit in a quiet environment, and clearing our minds of all thoughts. Focus on the breath entering and leaving our bodies. When our minds drift, we bring them back to our breath. Practiced, this meditation helps us stay present in daily life. Awareness; Compassion; Transmutation Richard Rudd gives 3 tools for dissolving victim patterns. 1 Awareness; 2 Compassion; 3 Transmutation (ACT – Use the tools to take action) Journal – Write your impressions in a notebook Awareness Notice details when you fall into inner victim child What event occurred? (Conflict with a partner) What did you feel? (Anger or loss of energy) What thoughts did you have? (I am never heard or I better just be quiet) Compassion Be patient with yourself. (It takes time) Accept and embrace your shadow. Imagine holding it like small child. This is your inner child. Notice the repeating emotions and beliefs that give the victim/shadow life Transformation Call in the Divine Light/Higher Power or the Gift related to the victim/shadow Notice where you feel the shadow sensations in your body Focus your attention and keep breathing into that area i.e. your belly Stay focusing and breathing until you notice some change Note: Repeat the 3 tools each time the victim/shadow appears. It took me a long time for Awareness of my victim. I discovered Compassion and Transformation later. Read also Hew Len Honoponopono Inner Child Meditation https://youtu.be/5lHiWyWU-Eo https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/wounded-inner-child-3/ https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/suffering-child/ https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/victim-rescuer-abuser/ https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/roots-self-sabotage/ BOOKS Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170 Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO.  NEW BOOK  “A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness.” A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness Softcover book https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness/dp/B0DNSF9DFB EBOOK https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B0DNQ9VBB8 I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness. FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift I would appreciate a review. What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? I will do a monthly at the beginning of each month COMMENTS: What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? Do you have suggestions to improve the articles? FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift. [subscribe2]  

Indigo-Adults
CRYSTAL, RAINBOW and SUN CHILDREN, Emotional Health

Indigo Adults: 7 Possible Signs. Are You an Indigo?

Indigo Adults Guidelines for Indigo Adults indicate they came in about 1950 – 1972. My birth, however, occurred August 19, 1945. I never considered or knew myself to be and Indigo Child. Recently, it dawned on me that, Yes, I am an Indigo. In the last year, it has become clear my next step in my life purpose involves mentoring and teaching the New Children. These include Crystals, Rainbow and Sun Children. The purpose, also, includes assisting parents and others connected to these children. Indigo’s often have been described as Warriors. They come in to break down old matrices and systems of control and power that no longer serve the common good. I describe the following signs, in reference to myself. These signs, however, can also apply to other Indigo Adults. More signs also exist. Indigo Adults and Children Have a Need to Know As a young child, teen and adult, I surrounded myself with books. I thirsted, as an adult, to understand the deeper core meaning behind esoteric religions, psychology and wisdom teachings of the world. At 24, I knew intuitively with full certainty that the most important thing in life focused on my inner emotional and spiritual growth – outer material career meant nothing. I needed to discover and know my true nature. Dislike Authority and Control Initially, had a challenging time at school. I had no interest. This shifted in grade 3 when a teacher talked to my mother. I have no memory what my mother said to me. From that time on, however, I totally focused on doing my best. Even though I disliked authority and control, unlike some Indigo’s I refrained from being a rebel. Have Difficulty with Violence and Suffering in the World In my family, my father as an alcoholic raged at my mother. I felt unsafe and insecure and, as a result, I withdrew and went inside myself. In addition, I became quiet and invisible. As a Peacemaker or Unifier, here is more explanation. The Unifier portrays my spiritual archetype. A Unifier has the ability to find and hold peace and balance between opposites. With any gift/talent a shadow quality presents itself as a challenge to move through. So, at the low end, of the polarity of Unifier, lies the victim which manifests as either anger or hopelessness/helplessness. This polarity has been a major ongoing challenge for most of my life. See more in feelings of despair below. See Indigo Adults Part 2 for other 4 signs https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/indigo-adults2/ Read also Empaths https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/empaths/ BOOKS Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170 Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO.  NEW BOOK  “A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness.” A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness Softcover book https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness/dp/B0DNSF9DFB EBOOK https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B0DNQ9VBB8 I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness. FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift I would appreciate a review. What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? I will do a monthly at the beginning of each month COMMENTS: What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? Do you have suggestions to improve the articles? FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift. [subscribe2]

Sushumna
Emotional Health

Radiant Energy Line of Force

Do you often feel overwhelmed, stressed, powerless or out of balance? These conditions show an undeveloped energy line of force. You may be out of alignment. Fortunately, you can build a line of force. Also, you can come back into alignment. What is Line of Force? Line of Force refers to building and connecting with core power center in your physical body. Building your Line of Force involves consciously connecting with your head and heart. Then your belly. This discipline increases your Will Power. Before, I discussed Energy Line of Force useful for anyone. See https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/energy-line-of-force/ Now I talk about the inner energy aspects of this referred to as the Sushumna. Sushumna A spiritual line of force exists in our etheric body. Hatha Yogi’s call this the Sushumna. Sushumna, as a line of force, manifests as current of inner energy. This power resides inside our spinal column. As the Earth has a central axis, so do we, the Sushumna. A flow of energy or consciousness radiates up and down the Sushumna. How to Balance Your Energy See, feel, imagine or visualize a vertical Light ray throughout your spine. This Light comes from the Creator, Divine, God or Source. Breath directly from the Divine into the top crown of your head. Now breath it down into your energetic heart. Continue breathing down your body and into the earth below your feet. Finally, breath all the way down into the central axis of the Earth. You connect to the center of Divine Conscious. Then through your inner core and into the Earth core. You may see colors to this electric flow. Perhaps you experience a pulse or vitality with your body. Repeat the above for a total of at least 3 times. Do this every day as a practice. Do it throughout the day when you start feeling overwhelmed or out of balance. Initially, you will get knocked out of your line of force. Old patterns of learned behavior from childhood will bump you off center. These wounds live in our lower 3 chakras. Invite your connection to Source. Breath through your Sushumna and into the Earth core and back to Source again. We consciously come back to our inner core. Continue healing your wounds of the lower chakras. Note: As you develop, the energy or Light comes down the center of your body. Then it automatically returns to Source up your back. A spiral moves up and down all your chakras. You can also see or visualize this. More Practices to Balance Your Energy https://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/energy-line-of-force/ Holotropic Breathwork https://youtu.be/prfll4C1zw0 Kriya Yoga for chakras 1- 3.  Second chakra below the navel do Yoga Exercises: Frog Pose, Cobra Pose, Butterfly, Sat Kriya, Cat-Cow, Pelvic Lifts. The second chakra holds emotional trauma relating to our “inner child.” Mantras or Chants – Connect to Source and breath the chants through your body. Example Gayatri Mantra by Sathya Sai Baba https://youtu.be/sFU7eblLzIg BOOKS Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways to improve emotional health, ease pain, and stress, heal physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See the book on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Health-Secret-Freedom-Trauma/dp/0615479170 Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 15 years of experience teaching teens self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls https://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Teens-Guide-Michael-Lawrience-ebook/dp/B009L4JLMO.  NEW BOOK  “A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness.” A Better Life Through Spiritual Growth and Higher Consciousness Softcover book https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness/dp/B0DNSF9DFB EBOOK https://www.amazon.com/Better-Through-Spiritual-Growth-Consciousness-ebook/dp/B0DNQ9VBB8 I wrote this book as a legacy of my inner emotional and spiritual journey of self-growth. I teach people how to heal trauma and transform consciousness. FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift I would appreciate a review. What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? I will do a monthly at the beginning of each month COMMENTS: What did you find helpful?  Do you have any suggestions for what you would like in future newsletters? Do you have suggestions to improve the articles? FREE eBook KINDLE COPY If you want a copy, send me your email. I will send it as a gift. [subscribe2]

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