What Unique Inner Subpersonalities Challenge Your Happiness?

September 19th, 2015

The subpersonality of the Sage, Warrior and Nurturer represent the three stages of linear change: Transfiguration, transformation and transmutation. The average person goes through these stages again and again … But some portions of the insights are not gained during each stage. Thus, there are unevolved parts of us that fall behind; stay immature. Almine, Mystic and Visionary

What are Subpersonalities?

subpersonalities Subpersonalities originally formed to protect us. If we find them triggered often, then they also hinder our emotional and spiritual growth or just finding joy in our lives.

A simple way to explain subpersonalities – do you still experience different critical self-talk in your head? These voices indicate unhealed trauma or unresolved conflicts within us.

Subpersonalities act as a range of behaviors and feelings which work outside our consciousness and even against our conscious intentions. Some relate to different roles in our lives, some as a result of traumas from childhood.

Healing our subpersonalities involves balancing and then transcending them.

The following is a brief summary of the teachings of Almine, Mystic & Visionary on our subpersonalities which include our inner child, nurturer, sage and warrior.

I like Almine’s approach in contrast to known psychological methods to subpersonalities, as she sees healing them as a way to greater spiritual growth.

Almine: The Tools of the Immature Subpersonalities

Warrioress Feminine ArchetypeThe subpersonality of the Sage, Warrior and Nurturer represent the three stages of linear change.

The Inner Child uses our subconscious mind as its tool e.g., critical self-talk. Examples: Critic; Hurt Child; Invisible Child etc.

The Nurturer controls our lives through feelings by using our unconscious right brain. It focuses only on feeling good i.e., a physical life of sensuality. Examples: People Pleaser; Rescuer; Romantic etc.

The Sage or Wise Woman exerts command of inner knowing to discern what truth is. Examples: Hermit; Saint; Savior etc.

The Warrior or Warrioress wields our left brain to control life or have power over something rather than surrendering to Divine Grace. Examples: Dominatrix; Protector; Quester etc.

Our relationships mirror back to us what is real or unreal within ourselves. The 4 subpersonalities represent the unreal which we can become more aware of and heal on our journey of spiritual growth.

What sub-personality(s) run your life?

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain His book provides ways for improving emotional health, easing pain and stress, healing physical and emotional abuse, and spiritual awakening. See book on Amazon http://ow.ly/zcTEo

Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 13 years’ experience teaching teen’s self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook Self Esteem- A Teen’s Guide for Girls http://ow.ly/zcTHa

Michael offers Bowen Therapy in person in Sedona, Arizona for easing physical and emotional pain. See http://emotionalhealthtips.com/bowen-therapy

Michael also conducts personalized hiking tours in Sedona for emotional and spiritual growth. http://sedonamysticaltours.com


 

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Emotions and Feelings: What is the Difference?

September 6th, 2015

Emotions and Feelings: What is the Difference?

While it takes around 300 milliseconds for you to become aware of a disturbing event, the amygdalae react to it within 20 milliseconds! Sadly, the knee-jerk responses of these organs cause you to overreact to the world around you.

emotionsFirst of all, thoughts, conscious or subconscious, trigger emotions. We could look at emotions in another way as intense thought or e-motion – energy in motion.

Consider emotions as psychological and related to the mind.

Feelings, on the other hand, can be either psychological or physiological. For Example:
Psychological: a feeling of calmness, happiness or peace.
Physiological: A feeling of hunger, thirst or tiredness.

Emotions and Feelings: What is the Difference?

People often use the terms emotions and feelings to mean the same. Having feelings often translates into having an emotional experience. This creates confusion.

Emotions occur as the brains reaction to an event, internal or external. For example, if you see someone you love your brain releases hormones like dopamine and oxytocin. If for instance, you experience a win which makes you feel good then your brain releases adrenaline and dopamine.

On a different note, in situations of fear or stress cortisol floods our brain. We want to protect ourselves and go into responses of fight, flight, freeze (shut down) or agree with someone to appease them.

Emotions: In summary, our brain, releases specific hormones which activate specific emotions.

Feeling: Next when the hormones hit our blood stream our body and organs react and we feel our heart beating faster or our breathing changes etc. We feel more energy – excitement or less energy – a drain of energy – fatigue. Think of feelings as the awareness of sensations in your body triggered by an emotional event.

What is an Emotion?

First an emotion occurs then we feel the emotion through physical sensations in our bodies.

emotionsEmotions are reactions to outer circumstances. Emotions are not caused by someone else, but by the thoughts you think and judgements you hold true: My partner loves me (good); my partner does not love me (bad).

Emotions originate in the part of the brain known as the amygdala or emotional brain.

Emotions of anger and fear assisted us, originally at the dawn of humanity, to survive threats of danger. The amygdala responds to internal or external danger signals.

These emotional reactions have been coded into our DNA. We no longer have saber tooth tigers chasing us instead we have bosses triggering ancient age anger and fear and our bodies respond in similar patterns of fight or flight.

Emotion from Latin “emovere” means to agitate or move. Emotion from Old French “emouvir” refers to stir up.

What is a Feeling?

Feelings follow emotions. Feelings result as reactions to emotions based on previous beliefs and experiences like for example: I am worthy of love; I am unworthy of love.

Think of feelings as the awareness of sensations in your body triggered by an emotional event.

Examples of feeling sensations in the body: Contraction and Expansion, Hot and Cold, Pressure, Lightness and Heaviness, Hardness and Softness, Tingling, Sharp pains, or Numbness.

Body sensations may be pleasant, or unpleasant such as the warmth of love or the pain of guilt.

Feeling derived from Old English “felan” – to touch or have a sensory experience.

Emotions and Feelings: What is the Difference?

  • Happiness: is a feeling.
  • Joy: is an emotion.
  • Worry: is a feeling.
  • Fear: is an emotion.
  • Contentment: is a feeling.
  • Enthusiasm: is an emotion.
  • Bitterness: is a feeling.
  • Anger: is an emotion.
  • Love: is a feeling.
  • Lust: is an emotion.
  • Depression: is a feeling.
  • Sadness: is an emotion.

Additional Information:

AmygdalaAmygdala consist two small almond-shaped masses as part of the limbic system and located in the temporal lobes of the brain. Amygdala also connected with the hypothalamus and the hippocampus.

The hypothalamus regulates metabolism etc., the pituitary and is also involved in feeling and perceiving something as rewarding: For example; love as a good and worth obtaining more.

The hippocampus attaches memories to the emotions and senses associated with them. For instance: a memory of happiness in nature and link it with the smell of the wild roses.

About Michael:

Michael David Lawrience is the author of Emotional Health: The Secret from Drama, Trauma, and Pain Part 3 of the book describes making conscious choices, path of the heart, paths of service, global paradigm shift, and spiritual awakening. http://ow.ly/zcTEo

Michael as a Residential and Self-Esteem Coach and Mentor has over 13 years’ experience teaching teen’s self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-reliance. See eBook http://www.emotionalhealthtips.com/self-esteem-teens-girls

Michael offers Bowen Therapy in person in Sedona, Arizona for easing physical and emotional pain. http://emotionalhealthtips.com/bowen-therapy

Michael also conducts personalized hiking tours in Sedona for emotional and spiritual breakthroughs. http://sedonamysticaltours.com


 

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